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  • #16
    if you cant love your self you cant love some one else!

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    • #17
      Loving yourself too much and being self-absorbed can also cause a relationship to fail. In truth, many people learn to love themselves by first being loved by another.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Dark-Matter View Post
        Loving yourself too much and being self-absorbed can also cause a relationship to fail. In truth, many people learn to love themselves by first being loved by another.
        Thumbs up, I just want to add, since the first earlier years of our life become the foundation, most often, people learn to love themselves by first being loved by their family. Observe how children who grow in a loving environment, compared to children who grow up in n environment lacking of love. Be careful don't mistake parents provide expensive stuff with love.

        However, it doesn't mean that if you have bad past, then you're doomed for life. No, the past dictate today, but what you do today could change tomorrow.

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        If you happened to have a bad past that affect who you are today, then don't dwell in the past. Don't waste time by blame this person or that person. Stand above the shadow of your past. Do something about it. Don't allow yourself to be a slave of your past. There is no time machine and you can't change your past, but you have power to control what you do today and that will determine your future.
        Last edited by Han1977; 01-23-2018, 01:03 AM.

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        • #19
          My opinion is: If you don't love yourself, you won't have confidence. Women specially tend to be attracted to confidence (even if it's based on nothing). But, depending on the person, loving oneself/being confident, can be easier said than done... If you are very down to earth/realistic, then it's way harder. You could try to do stuff you are proud of, or try to find a trait in yourself you think it's cool, or do like some people and just lie to yourself until you believe it... Having people who love you, and remind you that they love you with their actions, will boost your self love over time too. though not everyone has that kind of luck...

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