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  • Hi Suna

    Hope this clears up the confusion about alimony. And I do see it as fair.

    Also quite honestly... when you get a divorce... you should be thinking about how you benefit and gain --- not about the other person, lol.

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    Alimony If you're facing a divorce, you'll have to face reality: Alimony payments -- also known in some states as "spousal support" or "maintenance" -- are alive and well in the American divorce system. And if you earn substantially more money than a spouse to whom you have been married for several years, there is a good chance you will be ordered to pay some alimony. On the other hand, alimony generally isn't awarded for short marriages or where you and your spouse earn close to the same amount.
    If alimony is ordered, you will generally have to pay a specified amount each month until:
    • a date set by a judge several years in the future
    • your former spouse remarries
    • your children no longer need a full-time parent at home
    • a judge determines that after a reasonable period of time, your spouse has not made a sufficient effort to become at least partially self-supporting
    • some other significant event -- such as retirement -- occurs, convincing a judge to modify the amount paid, or
    • one of you dies.
    As with most issues in your divorce, you and your spouse can agree to the amount and length of time alimony will be paid. But if you can't agree, a court will set the terms for you. Unfortunately, having a court make the decision means there will be a trial, and that can cost you a lot of time and money.
    If you expect to pay alimony

    The fact you have to pay alimony to your ex-spouse doesn't amount to a finding that you are a bad person. Consider it part of the cost of entering a marriage that you probably thought would last until death parted you, but -- for reasons you didn't anticipate -- didn't. Alimony has been the law for more than 100 years, and while it is ordered somewhat less frequently these days, there is no sign that courts are going to stop making alimony orders for good.
    If you expect to receive alimony

    The question of whether you qualify for alimony is usually resolved by looking at your capacity to earn -- which is not necessarily what you are earning at the time you go to court -- how much your spouse earns, and your standard of living during the marriage.
    You might also be required to make some changes in your life and work. For example, if you have a part-time job that doesn't pay well, you may be required to attempt to find full-time employment in a better-paid field. Experts called "vocational evaluators" are sometimes hired to report to the court on the job prospects for a spouse who hasn't been fully employed for a while. The evaluator will administer vocational tests and then shop your credentials with potential employers in order to estimate how much income you could earn.
    If your spouse refuses to pay

    Finally, if you secure an alimony order but your spouse refuses to make the required payments, take immediate legal action to enforce the order through a "contempt" proceeding or an "earnings assignment order." Orders to pay monthly alimony have the same force as any other court order and, if handled properly, can be enforced with the very real possibility of obtaining regular payments. If necessary, a court may jail a reluctant payor to show that it means business.

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    • Originally posted by CricketUSA View Post

      Sounds like someone is being butthurt here... because the facts I presented just show the truth which you misogynistic types love to ignore.

      I don't know man, it is not like that you are capable of hurting me with words thou And again, you seem to love making personal attack and accusation with no evidence. "misogynistic" hah, laughable.

      I haven't seen any link of "unrefuted studies", from you thou, just words.Just show me a fact with support background pls. On the other hands, your selective citing of my words is a fact that can not be denied. You or anyone can go back to the early pages to understand my statement.

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      • Originally posted by Suna123 View Post

        the most important things have been said at the first pages.
        There is no reason to stop a discussion just because it run out of topic. When nobody is interested anymore then nobody answers.

        Yes - OP is a troll. So what.
        So don't feed the troll.

        But well, I am in no position to stop this thread and giving my thought/opinion is not a crime.

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        • Originally posted by Nano-Man View Post


          I don't know man, blah, blah, blah blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,blah, blah, blah,blah, blah, blah.blah, blah, blah,blah, blah, blah,blah, blah, blah,blah, blah
          You said earlier that this thread was dinosaur shit... and yet all you've added to this thread IS dinosaur shit... so you're part of the problem!

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          • Originally posted by Nano-Man View Post
            As I pointed out before in my very first post in this thread, I does not recognise this thread should be in this "RELIGION and PHILOSOPHY" section ,
            If creating this topic into religion & philosophy was questionable, I think it's not anymore. It turned out to be an highly religious one

            As for describing what you are :



            https://risibank.fr/cache/stickers/d501/50129-full.png

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            • Originally posted by CricketUSA View Post

              You said earlier that this thread was dinosaur shit... and yet all you've added to this thread IS dinosaur shit... so you're part of the problem!

              Uhm .. what is your point ? what problem ?

              p/s: look at that bla bla stuff, it is hilarious. Ignorance at its finest.

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              • Originally posted by Sancta_Lux View Post
                If creating this topic into religion & philosophy was questionable, I think it's not anymore. It turned out to be an highly religious one

                As for describing what you are :



                https://risibank.fr/cache/stickers/d501/50129-full.png

                Yeap, I changed my mind.

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                • Originally posted by Nano-Man View Post


                  p/s: look at that bla bla stuff, it is hilarious. Ignorance at its finest.
                  So says Mr. Dinosaur Shit For Brains...

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                  • Originally posted by CricketUSA View Post

                    Yes many PUAs become MGTOWs... partly due to the fact that many of these PUA strategies don't work.

                    There's actually a whole cottage industry built around the PUA movement. There are guys who give seminars and lectures on PUA strategies... and you got loser males forking over big bucks to attend these events... thinking that these methods will work for them, but they don't.

                    After all, women -- no matter where they are in the world... can always spot a LOSER. And if they don't before they march down the aisle, then that's probably another reason why women initiate the bulk of divorces!

                    https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...y-julien-blanc

                    There is indeed a big and growing industry for PUA, with a few guys claiming to be "gurus" who have knowledge worth paying for and alot of desperate dopes doling out the cash.

                    Many PUAs claim to be MGTOWs based on their belief that women are only good for casual sex not relationships or marriage. But unless they "go their own way" in terms of avoiding physical contact with women altogether then they aren't actually doing what they claim. I'm sure there some men who avoid any type of intimate contact with women based on their MGTOW beliefs. But I've yet to come across one either in life or on the net.
                    Last edited by ChrisShiva; 03-10-2018, 03:02 AM.

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                    • Originally posted by CricketUSA View Post

                      So says Mr. Dinosaur Shit For Brains...
                      TRRR

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                      • Originally posted by ChrisShiva View Post


                        There is indeed a big and growing industry for PUA, with a few guys claiming to be "gurus" who have knowledge worth paying for and alot of desperate dopes doling out the cash.

                        Many PUAs claim to be MGTOWs based on their belief that women are only good for casual sex not relationships or marriage. But unless they "go their own way" in terms of avoiding physical contact with women altogether then they aren't actually doing what claim. I'm sure there some men who avoid any type of intimate contact with women based on their MGTOW beliefs. But I've yet to come across one either in life or on the net.
                        I don't think I clearly understood your post, the MGTowers I have read begin with sandman and there are a few others whos names I don't remember (I have no need to be a MGTower ) in their speechs the meaning is clear as is evidenced by their frequent use of Hump them ,Pump them , and Dump them...They are not advocating total disengagement from women they are cautioning against marriage, commonlaw wife rights etc,,don't "set up house" with them and don't marry them...
                        America is a free country and these men have the right to free speach and the right to associate,do MGTow indulge in "hate speech"...

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                        • Originally posted by ChrisShiva View Post


                          There is indeed a big and growing industry for PUA, with a few guys claiming to be "gurus" who have knowledge worth paying for and alot of desperate dopes doling out the cash.

                          Many PUAs claim to be MGTOWs based on their belief that women are only good for casual sex not relationships or marriage. But unless they "go their own way" in terms of avoiding physical contact with women altogether then they aren't actually doing what they claim. I'm sure there some men who avoid any type of intimate contact with women based on their MGTOW beliefs. But I've yet to come across one either in life or on the net.
                          That's why the acronym MGTOW also stands for Men Getting Thirsty Over Women, hahahaha.

                          They can't stay away from women... they need women, but yet they hate women and blame them for all of society's problems.

                          For example, I have seen MGTOWs blame women for the declining birthrate and how this ultimately will be bad for society and will spell doom to Western civilization, hehehe.

                          They COMPLETELY ignore the fact that birth rates are declining just about everywhere in the world due to changing socioeconomic factors, lol.

                          MGTOW is part a self delusional system that some men use to avoid the fact that their poor social skills and deeply troubled psychological states are keeping them from successfully interacting with the opposite sex and forming a lasting romantic relationship or marital relationship.

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                          • CricketUSA:;" They can't stay away from women >they need women.. A lot of that has to do with mother nature,,but these days it is becoming debatable...
                            The business instinct in America is driving the search for isolating and encapsulating this need for women and it seems to be that for many men they are needed only for sex hence the advances in dollbot technology to come up with an easily affordable realistic alternative to a human sex partner...
                            Social change is needed in America and I think a good place to start is for America to make its Own refrigerators,stoves,washing machines ,dryers from its Own steel...

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                            • Originally posted by Elishar View Post
                              CricketUSA:;" They can't stay away from women >they need women.. A lot of that has to do with mother nature,,but these days it is becoming debatable...
                              The business instinct in America is driving the search for isolating and encapsulating this need for women and it seems to be that for many men they are needed only for sex hence the advances in dollbot technology to come up with an easily affordable realistic alternative to a human sex partner...
                              Social change is needed in America and I think a good place to start is for America to make its Own refrigerators,stoves,washing machines ,dryers from its Own steel...
                              I don't see any need for social change other than more equality for women.... and thankfully America is moving in the right direction with respect to that.


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                              • Originally posted by Elishar View Post
                                I don't think I clearly understood your post, the MGTowers I have read begin with sandman and there are a few others whos names I don't remember (I have no need to be a MGTower ) in their speechs the meaning is clear as is evidenced by their frequent use of Hump them ,Pump them , and Dump them...They are not advocating total disengagement from women they are cautioning against marriage, commonlaw wife rights etc,,don't "set up house" with them and don't marry them...
                                America is a free country and these men have the right to free speach and the right to associate,do MGTow indulge in "hate speech"...
                                There are plenty of moderate MGTOWs but it tends to be the more extreme ones that are most vocal. From what I can see, it is based on the idea that marriage is no longer worth it because of the laws and changes in society and men are better off avoiding it. I am not a MGTOWer but I do agree with that part. Some are not even against marriage and family but they just don't want to marry Western women. The ones that will even avoid sex with women call themselves MGTOW monks but I think they are a very small minority.

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